Let’s Talk About It: How would you describe your ideal experience of sexual intimacy?

Let’s Talk About It: A series of questions to deepen your understanding of sexual intimacy between you and your partner, and self-disclosure prompts to encourage openness and vulnerability.

"How would you describe your ideal experience of sexual intimacy?”. What are you looking for in your experiences of sex? And how do your current experiences match up to your hopes or expectations? Having these open, honest, conversations, and not making assumptions about your partner's views, increases understanding, encourages support, deepens intimacy and overall sexual satisfaction. I will be posting regularly to the Let’s Talk About It playlist to support you and your partner in enhancing your sexual communication.

The Eight Major Components of Magnificent Sex:

These eight components reflects the qualities of “magnificent sex”, representing some of the qualities people seek from their experience of sex. As you look at the list below, do any of these line up with what you look for in sex?

1. Being completely present in the moment, embodied, focused, absorbed

2. Connection, alignment, being in synch, merger

3. Deep sexual and erotic intimacy

4. Extraordinary communication and deep empathy

5. Being genuine, authentic, transparent

6. Vulnerability and surrender

7. Exploration, interpersonal risk-taking and fun

8. Transcendence and transformation

 I hope you enjoy having more open conversations with your partner. To find out more about the concept of “Magnificent Sex”, read “Magnificent Sex” by Peggy J Kleinplatz and A Dana Menard.